Thanks, Shaun. We're okay for 1881 but they don't appear in the 1891 or 1901 census records even doing a first name only search. I can't find a death listed for George and my friend feels that Eliza, her grandmother, didn't leave the country. Sooooo....if she and George separated and then Eliza changed her name to something else I really don't know how we'll trace her. We've sent for Eliza's mother's will so *maybe* that will give us some leads. Eliza had only one sibling, a sister Gertrude, who married Walter Jowitt but died when their first child was born. That child - Gertrude Jowitt - lived but never married and had no children so finding sources of information is VERY difficult.