Hello Karenlee,
Sorry if my request seems a little confusing.
Margaret married John Bulman in 1857 when he was listed as being 28 and she was 23.
This would make them approx 32 and 27 in 1861 and 10yrs older than that in 1871.
He was a farmer in West Auckland.
Hope this makes it clearer.
Thanks,
Hinton.,