Hi Trish,
no she does not have a photo of him.
Married twice since.
She was 20 when she was engaged to Alwyn, she was telling me about when the news first came out that the Sydney had gone down and there was nothing definate said about any survivers, that an Uncle told her "wipe your tears and get on with it, you won't be seeing him again"
She said her uncle was a very hard man.
She has already left, plane from melbourne to Sydney then back to Brissy.
Quite the jetsetter.

She was great company and I managed to get a lot of goss on hubby's side of the family. Oh and she corrected my spelling errors in some of the history I had done for their side of the family

thanks again for all your help, the gentleman was in total amazement when I told him I had a lady staying with me who was engaged to the fellow whom he was inquiring about. I am still in awe about the coincident as this Aunt wasn't supposed to be staying with us, it was only that her brother, FIL, whom she was supposed to be staying with, was taken to hospital.
cheers
Margaret