Hi Sandy
Likewise, nice to be in touch again too!
Tom and Harry were both in the Royal Garrison Artillery and so was their older brother David, who was wounded in the Great War like my grandfather, but I've no idea about James. I think the RGA is a pretty good bet but then my grandfather was a career soldier and he joined the Northamptonshire regiment.
Their parents were David JONES and Tabitha Dorcas HAKES. All the boys were born at Piddington and registered under HAKES (parents not married) but they all used JONES as their surname. I have also looked for James under HAKES, just in case, but with no result - easy as a lot less people of that surname were killed! In the early 1890s the family moved to Northampton and in 1901 the address was 82, Shelley Street.
I didn't look at overseas deaths while I was at Kew. I had realised that the soldiers who died abroad didn't seem to have their deaths registered in this country but that one hadn't occurred to me. All the same I'm not sure it would help much, as having gone through the entire list of J. JONES entries on the Commonwealth War Graves Commission site I don't know how I would know which one, if any, was him.
Both my Uncle and a slightly more distant Aunt have told me that two brothers were killed in WWI, so I would be a bit sceptical about James if he hadn't been named and there wasn't the information about his wife and son. I don't know what to make of it.
Regards,
Diana