Yes I think it is this member stuff that has 'foxed' me as you say.
This is what I have found so far -
Thomas 1823 Houghton, , Bedford, England Joseph Barker/Mary Gurney - Submitted by member
Esther - two references IGI - 11 JUL 1824 Stotfold, Bedford, England -Joseph Barker/Mary AND one via Pedigree Resource File which gives parents as Joseph Barker and Mary Anne Rowley (with the 1819 marriage date) and a Christening date of 11 Aug 1824 rather than July
Joseph b 1831 has two references - IGI and PRF
Martha b 1824 has two references - IGI and PRF the second of which makes no sense to have her mother as Mary Ann Rowley when her middle name seems to clearly be Gurney
Anna b 1826 IGI/PRF
Mary b 1929 IGI/PRF
The same person also has Mary Anne Rowley born 1798, Stotford, Beds to Joseph Rowley and Elizabeth nee Smith and there is certainly a similar IGI reference.
There is a Mary Gurney b c 1797 Bedfordshire And Hertfordshire Quaker Quarterly Meeting, , Bedford, England to Thomas and Hannah which is I suppose a possibility given that Mary and Joseph have children with those names.
Oh dear, even more confusing. Looks like I'll have to find some certificates for B,D and M's
Thankyou so much for your help. I think we are on the right track with Gurney.
Deanne