Hello Eldon, and thank you for your message.
I have now managed to find my elusive Thomas on the censuses ( I think) aged 1. His father Thomas Owens, a butcher, is the only one I can find on the census with that name and occupation. They were living in Birkenhead in 1881, but Thomas Simpson Owens is shown as being born in Rhyl, and it looks like it has been wrongly transcribed as Thomas J Owens. He has two older sisters on that census - Mary L born in Rhyl and Alice A born in Skelmersdale. I'll take your advice and look for a Thomas Owens marrying a Jane SImpson, or alternatively a Thomas Owens with a mother maiden name of Simpson.
On another tack, I notice that you are located in Prestatyn. Believe it or not, my Owens quest starts there!! My grandfather's brothers lived in Church Walks, Prestatyn, which if I remember correctly was just off the High Street at the top of the hill. As a child, I used to go and stay with Uncle Joe and Aunty Nellie (Joseph and Helen Owens) and their children. They had 2 sons - Bernard, who I vaguely remember was a policeman and married to a hairdresser (he was a lot older than me), Michael, and 2 daughters Mary and Helen who were much closer to me in age. At the end of Church Walks there was another brother - who we always called Uncle Mered, although I now believe he was actually called Edward Meredith Owens. The youngest of my grandfather's brothers, Quentin, lived in Wrexham with his wife Margaret. I think there were two sisters as well, one of them, Eleanor, lived in Oldham with her husband and 2 children - Cassie was the other sister - I think she may have actually been Mary Catherine - she was married to a man called Ted and lived in Watford.
I tell you all this just in case you recognise any of the names!! It is about 45 years ago (gosh that makes me feel VERY old), but just in case you do happen to know any of the children (Bernard, Michael, Mary or Helen) I would love to be back in touch with them.
I'm off now to search the registers for a Thomas Owen/s and a Jane Simpson!!
As you surmise, I have very good internet access and resources, and I think the idea of a bottle of red is very appealing right now......
Many thanks for your time and advice.
Regards
Lynne