Hi Phil,
No the James that married Emma Ede was born abt 1797 in Slaugham.
I previously looked to see if the Emma was connected to the Sarah, but Emma was born abt 1797 in Keymer and Emma was born abt 1807 in Lindfield.
I have lots of ideas about this James, so you are welcome to pm me if you'd like more info.
Incidentally were there any witnesses at the Emma marriage?
Regards,
Penny