carole,many thanks for the reply.thomas streeting is my ancestor,robert is his brother.on the 1841 robert is mistranscribed as streeling born 1820,and thomas is living with elizabeth streeting and her children but for some reason using roberts name.thomas married elizabeth in eastchurch in 1841,robert married mary ann hagarty the day after.on the 1851 the two brothers are living next to each other,mary ann born british subject,elizabeth born england.by 1881,mary ann is born ireland.elizabeth is on the 1871 mistranscribed as elizabeth shaling born ireland.not sure where thomas buckley fits in,he could be elizabeths first husband as she had three kids on 1841.very confusing i know,if you can help id be grateful,thanks,nel.