Hello Jackie,
Thank you very much for that, very kind of you to offer, but I actually drove over to Aldenham only yesterday. Sweet village. I found Sarah and John's tombstone near the east end of the church.
I'm actually after HER family, the Parfitts, as her brother, Isaac Parfitt is my GGGG grandfather. As I said in my first entry on this subject, I have no idea where he was from or where in the UK he died, but the info given me on this site is now pointing to Holborn in London, though Parfitt does seem to be a West Country name originally. But one step at a time, eh?
By the way, do you assume that smith former means that is what his surname used to be or his job?
Thanks again
Brian