Marriages Dec 1896
IRWIN Ruth Annie Whitehaven 10b 1085
McBRYDE Francis Whitehaven 10b 1085
1901
29 York Road, Erdington, Warwickshire
Frank McBRYDE 27 Manager Tea Shop, Cumb Greysouthen
Ruth 27 Seascale
1911
Still in Warwickshire, both aged 38, no kids.
Assuming there was only one Ruth IRWIN, in 1891 she appeared as 18 year old daughter of Wm and Christian IRWIN at Gosforth.
I have yet to spot her in 1881.