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From Census did your Thomas Wicks marry Jane Anne POOLE 1858 Reg Farnbro or Sarah BARNES 1857 Reg Norfolk?
BAPTISM;
Thomas WIX, 3 October 1831, St James, Castle Acre, Norfolk
Parents THOMAS/MARY, abode Castleacre, Fathers Occp Labourer
(notes also written as Wicks in Register)
Siblings Baptisms;
RICHARD 31 Aug 1817
SARAH 11 April 1819
SARAH 4 March 1821
MARY ANN 23 March 1823
JOHN 4 May 1828
JAMES 30 May 1830
(Source FreeREG)
MARRIAGE;
7 Nov 1857, St Peter and Paul, Swaffam, Norfolk
Thomas WICKS, Bachelor age 26, Occp Engine Fitter, Father WILLIAM Wicks, Occp Labourer
Sarah BARNES, Spinster age 21, Father JOHN Barnes, Occp Labourer
Witnesses, James Barnes and Anna Barnes
(Source FreeREG)
MARRIAGE;
22 May 1858, Farnborough, Hampshire
Thomas WICKS
Jane Anne POOLE age 19, Father HENRY Poole
(Source Familysearch.Org)
Trish

1851 Thomas Wicks who married Jane is a Schoolmaster in the Smallburgh Workhouse. Down as born c 1832 Great Dunham. Living with the King Family.
1841 the Southacre Thomas married to Sarah is with Father WILLIAM and siblings in Southacre under Tom WIX born 1831.