Hi again
This is especially to Lizzie who pondered and searched for me! I feel like a complete twit!!!
When I was first searching for this particular line I searched the census records and found Joseph Smart on the 1841 census, born the right time and in the right place so I merrily added him to my tree and his father and mother - Robert and Harriet. All fine until I got Josephs birth cert which threw the spanner in the works cos dads name was also Joseph and mums was Susannah (see postings below!).
I was just compsing a post for the Ireland boards and had a flash of inspiration - I've got Josephs marriage cert so I checked and fathers name and on THAT its Robert

Oh hell, says I - I've sent off for the wrong birth cert but on checking the index it seems that no, I have got the right one. Now I'm actually using my brain - searched for Joseph seniors death and hey presto - there were two in the right area in 1840 which is when Susannah died.
I then checked the 1841 census to see where Robert Smart was born and found it was In Wainfleet, so checked the IGI and thats where I found Joseph born 1813 and Robert born 1814 to the same parents. So I'm guessing poor Jospeh jnr was orphaned in 1840 and then taken in by his uncle and aunt and they 'adopted' him.
If you have actually managed to follow my ramblings - well done!

and thanks again to Lizzie and everyone who's read it.
By the way - do you think I can make the assumption on what I've outlined above?
Cheers
Kim