Would some kind person see if they can find a baptism record for a Thomas Collyer born about 1862 in Dymchurch. Father Michael Collyer Mother Jane Maynard. They married Dec 1856 in Dymchurch. There does not appear to be a registration of his birth
I have his marriage Cert - 1885 Lowestoft to my G Grandmother Emma - and his death Cert - 1938 in Peckham. Both suggest a birth date of 1862
There is however a birth and death record for a Thomas Collyer Maynard in June 1856-Dec 1856 Romney Marsh. I don't know whether to send for these and see if they help?
Many thanks