Hi Canisp
You are an absolute star !

thanks very much for doing that.
Random searching in churchyards is a bit daunting - even in a small one - I have nearly lost the will to live doing it several times. It may even be that there was no headstone (assuming that she was buried there) - a wooden cross or plaque would have rotted away long ago.
I'm not sure if she would have been listed under her maiden name (McAllister - she was Irish) - only her married name McGowan was on the death entry.
I had hoped someone on the forum had access to the MI's for there. I will also try West Lothian Council to see if they have records of the graves.
Thanks again for your kind deed.
Osprey