Hello Hlfuller
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A Charles Pannell married in Halstead R.D (includes Castle Hedingham) in 1845 but.....
You need to work backwards in time and logic tells me that if its your grandparents 50th wedding anniversary you are relatively young, so your great grandparents were not born anywhere near 1813 so who are your great grandparents?
1861 census
70 Guards Club, Pall Mall, St James Westminster, London, Middx
Isaac Pennell.....servant...22 (unm)...servant domestic...Castle Heddingham, Essex
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1861
Alfred Pannell aged 26 is a domestic servant at Bath, Somersetshire
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1851
Back Lane, Castle Hedingham, Halstead, Essex
Charles Pannell.......head.....38......ag lab.................Castle Hedingham, Essex
Susan........"............wife.......44............................................"
Alfred.........".............son.......17......ag lab............................"
John...........".............son.......15......ag lab............................"
Ann............".............daur......13............................................"
Isaac........."..............son.......11..........................................." (born Dec qtr 1838, Halstead R.D)
Eleanor......".............daur.......9............................................" (born Mar qtr 1842 Halstead R.D)
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1841
Back Lane, Castle Hedingham, Halstead, Essex
Susannah Pannel...35............................................Essex
Alfred.............".........8............................................Essex
John.............."..........5............................................Essex
Ann................".........3............................................Essex
Lydia Norden..........20............................................Essex
Isaac Pannel............2.............................................Essex
Julia Pannel................1.............................................Essex
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1856
a Charles Pannel married a Sarah Ward...Halstead R.D
Bryant