Hi Newbie,
Here are your family on the 1851 census:
Ref HO107 1633c folio 325 page 13
16 High Street, Elham
John F Pilcher head mar age 37 carpenter master 1 apprentice born Kent Elham
Hannah Pilcher wife mar age 35 born do do
Elgar Pilcher son age 8 do do
Elizabeth Pilcher dau age 6 do do
Frank Pilcher son age 4 do do
Hannah Pilcher dau age 1 do do
xx Carol.