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James Isted & wife Mary x 2 Who's who?
« on: Monday 10 January 11 03:38 GMT (UK) »
I hope I'm on the right board this time, having a bad time navigating.

Regarding a previous posting on James Isted & Mary ? I have been looking at a possible link with them.

In 1802 & 1803 there are two listings for the marriages of a Mary Bysh & Mary Betts LDS
IGI ( old version ) to a James Isted. ( Mary Betts is not mentioned in the new version ).

Between them there are some 9 children born between 1803 & 1818. Problem is, how to
know, who belongs to who. I have a gut feeling that James & Mary Bysh are the ones I'm
looking for, but of course, no guarentees. On behalf of my wife, I'm hoping that some
all knowing Chatter has a trick or two up there sleeve.

Regards, Wozza



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Re: James Isted & wife Mary x 2 Who's who?
« Reply #1 on: Monday 10 January 11 07:38 GMT (UK) »
Hi Wozza

Welcome to Rootschat  :)

On the Sussex Marriage Index

11th Apr 1802 James Isted & Mary Betts married at East Grinstead.

Extra info,James was from West Hoathly

29th May 1803,James Isted & Mary Bysh married at East Grinstead

Hope this helps

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Pembrokeshire
James,Gibby,David/Davies,Evan/s,Edward,Thomas,Griffith,Brown,Richards,Phillipps
Carmarthenshire
Thomas,Wilkin,James
Glamorganshire
James
Husbands side
Sussex,Mitchell,White,Hew/Hugh,Peter/s,Lower,Goring,Skinner,Cavey,Padgham,Brann,Graves,Hards,Easton,Moon,Gibb/s,Shepherd
Kent,Curties,Harris/Cleverly
Buckinhamshire
Shephard,Tuck,Philips

Scotland,Riddle

Todd,could be Old Windsor or somewhere I Lincolnshire,John Todd didn't seem to know

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Re: James Isted & wife Mary x 2 Who's who?
« Reply #2 on: Monday 10 January 11 22:23 GMT (UK) »
G'day omega 1. Many thank's for your reply to my enquiry. I was somewhat remiss in
neglecting to mention the two marriages were in East Grinstead.

Specifically, I am trying to find out how to identify which of the afforementioned 9 children
belonged to who, since the mothers maiden surname is never shown for some inane reason. I'm afraid I'm all out of ideas.

Best wishes, Wozza.


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Re: James Isted & wife Mary x 2 Who's who?
« Reply #3 on: Wednesday 12 January 11 16:06 GMT (UK) »
Hi Wozza,
Are you thinking that these are two different James Isted's or do you think he was widowed & married another Mary shortly after his first wife's death?
I had a look at burials for West Hoathly & although the name Isted appears in 1802 & 1803 for a Thomas in his seventies & an infant, William, no sign of a Mary.  But they might have remained in East Grinstead.
http://www.westhoathly.org.uk/Burials/Burials.html

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Re: James Isted & wife Mary x 2 Who's who?
« Reply #4 on: Wednesday 12 January 11 17:34 GMT (UK) »
Wozza, I've just found a members tree on Ancestry for James Isted married to Mary Bysh.  This James was born about 1776 the son of Edward & Sarah & is a farmer at Butlers Farm, East Grinstead.  It looks well researched so if you're not a member of Ancestry & want to contact the tree owner I can do that on your behalf.  The owner is Lisa Lynn Henry in case you already know about it  ;)

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Re: James Isted & wife Mary x 2 Who's who?
« Reply #5 on: Wednesday 12 January 11 23:46 GMT (UK) »
G'day Jane. Thank you kindly for replying.

Regarding your first reply, no, I did not consider the two as being the one James. Always
a possibility though, and something to remember.

Reply two: The James Isted that I feel may be linked, was. chr. on February 25 1780, at
East Grinstead, Sussex, ( LDS - IGI ). His parents were William Isted,1746 & Sarah Histed and his parents were Henry Isted & Mary ?

All of this, has of course to be still confirmed, ( somehow ).

Kind regards, Wozza

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Re: James Isted & wife Mary x 2 Who's who?
« Reply #6 on: Thursday 13 January 11 07:19 GMT (UK) »
Hi Wozza

I took a look at the 1841 census

Living at Butler Farm

James 60
Mary 57
Sarah 30
Frances 11
Henry 8

Forgot to write it down but James & Mary were still at Butler Farm on 1851.

Living at Killicks

James 65
Mary 60
William
John 12

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omega
Pembrokeshire
James,Gibby,David/Davies,Evan/s,Edward,Thomas,Griffith,Brown,Richards,Phillipps
Carmarthenshire
Thomas,Wilkin,James
Glamorganshire
James
Husbands side
Sussex,Mitchell,White,Hew/Hugh,Peter/s,Lower,Goring,Skinner,Cavey,Padgham,Brann,Graves,Hards,Easton,Moon,Gibb/s,Shepherd
Kent,Curties,Harris/Cleverly
Buckinhamshire
Shephard,Tuck,Philips

Scotland,Riddle

Todd,could be Old Windsor or somewhere I Lincolnshire,John Todd didn't seem to know

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Re: James Isted & wife Mary x 2 Who's who?
« Reply #7 on: Thursday 13 January 11 07:21 GMT (UK) »
Oooops

William 15

omega
Pembrokeshire
James,Gibby,David/Davies,Evan/s,Edward,Thomas,Griffith,Brown,Richards,Phillipps
Carmarthenshire
Thomas,Wilkin,James
Glamorganshire
James
Husbands side
Sussex,Mitchell,White,Hew/Hugh,Peter/s,Lower,Goring,Skinner,Cavey,Padgham,Brann,Graves,Hards,Easton,Moon,Gibb/s,Shepherd
Kent,Curties,Harris/Cleverly
Buckinhamshire
Shephard,Tuck,Philips

Scotland,Riddle

Todd,could be Old Windsor or somewhere I Lincolnshire,John Todd didn't seem to know

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Re: James Isted & wife Mary x 2 Who's who?
« Reply #8 on: Thursday 13 January 11 15:16 GMT (UK) »
This is complicated as there are more than one James Isted baptised in the area at about the same time period & you really need some kind of clue to sort the wheat from the chaff, which I know was your original quest  :)
I would suggest you get in touch with the Ancestry tree owner as she seems to have done extensive research & might just have some information which might help you.
I don't know if the public trees are available to none Ancestry members but you could have a go & have a look.  Just put in James Isted's details & it should come up. If you decide to contact her then just ask & I'll put that in motion. This extended family in & around East Grinstead all seem to be landowners/farmers so there should be documentation out there which could help.  Also they all seemed to enjoy giving their children the same names  ::)
In the meantime this is the marriage of Henry to Mary by licence. 


 Archdeaconry of Chichester Marriage Licence,   21 Nov 1726:
Henry ISTED, hus Worth
 Mary LINDFIELD, Ringfield Sry
 Sponsors ss: IH; Arthur CARTER hus Worth

 
 Horsham, West Sussex,  24 Nov 1726:
Henry ISTED
 Mary LINFEILD, sp

If your not sure what the abbreviations are just shout  :)

Jane
 
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