hi sue
sorry to be a pain but think we need to step bac and start again here goes as i,ve no idea what the set up is with birth marriage and death records for the carribean can you tell me or find out does your daughter in law have a birth cert with her mothers maiden name on it , next what records for b m d are available in the carribean , only if we can establish who her mother is then work back from that for a marriage and so on , i,ve just realised also in your first post you,ve put that in effect jeremiah murphy is your dau in laws father well if he was born around the 1890, that would probably mean your dau in law was born say 1930,s by now she,d be about 80

so j m must either be her gt grandfather or her grandfather at a push , see what you can find out and we,ll have another go
trevor