As usual , a bit long winded

1891 census for Stoke on Trent, Staffordshire.
Herbert Kidwell born 1887 New Jersey,America,
is living with relitive's and his family,
I cannot find them in England in 1881, so think they are in America,
his sister Clara Kidwell born 1887 also in New Jersy, America.
but his baby sister of 3 months was born in England in 1891 .
their daddy is not with them ,
I am trying to find their daddy, who was he

I do not know their mothers maiden name , in 1891 she is called Alice Kidwell, aged 26, born 1865, in NK ?
can anyone help a very consused Eilleen.
