JM
Was starting to think along the lines that you were. That the first obit and the mention of Ann and her married sister (Mr. & Mrs. William Carr) was an error in so much there was a Keeling on the voyage out, presumably with his wife, AND also a William Carr. Both of these gentleman BTW were butchers by trade according to the newspaper accounts.
Started to think that these names became intertwined for some reason and the confusion continued. After all that obit mentions 17 children but official records from d\certs only show 12 to this marriage and one to her (Ann's) first marriage to Green. Total 13.
"Battler" in his obit writes: - "Mrs. Harry Hart must surely be the last of the Rockhampton residents who arrived by the Royal Dane in July, 1865. Other single girls who came out and married were the late Mrs. W. K. Higson, Mrs. J. T. S. Bird, and Mrs. Con. Hourigan. Among the married were Mr. and Mrs. Charles Hitchcock, Mr. and Mrs. .T. W. Power, and Mr. and Mrs. W. J. Wright. Bill Carr was a noted early day butcher, but who went North in the seventies and for many years led the board at the meat works at Townsville" etc
Doesn't it seem odd the way the article launches straight into Bill Carr was a noted.....etc. There does not appear to be any continuity to the article\sentences. It's like there was cut and paste or whatever it was called in the day. Something is missing!! Or me english ain't proper.
There are significant reports in the papers for Joseph Keeling being around during the 60's & 70"s and a final hurray in the late 90's when he wants crown land to grow grapes. There is a brief mention of Wm. Carr wanting to hire butchers in the early 70's. IF these gentlemen WERE one and the same why would they\he be swapping between names?
HOWEVER..There is always a however....!!!
In the Argus, Friday 10 March 1882: - ....Greenough charged with bigamy. It was stated that some two years ago previous to this (his current marriage) it is alleged that he had been married to another woman named Gades[sic] or Carr, from whom he separated but obtained no legal divorce.
This then begs the question..Where did the reporter (In Victoria) get the information from that his (Greenough's) first wife was a Gates\Carr. It could only have come from Margaret Gates herself who, incidentally, was pressing charges, and who married under her maiden name of Gates, obviously wanting to hide her past.
Just spitballing here......I wonder if, after Margaret and Joseph Keeling went their seperate ways, that Margaret and William Carr forged a relationship for a period of time and the fact that both gentlemen were butchers and that they also came out on the same ship, that it has all helped in the later confusion as to who her (Margaret's) husband actually was.
It is about the only logical explanation left.
Jon