« Reply #5 on: Monday 25 April 11 14:35 BST (UK) »
Hi again,
I found the October wedding of John and Ellen. It would seem her name before marriage was also Croucher so maybe thats why you were unable to find her.
It is hard to find Ellen with the middle name of May for her childhood. I did find however, a Ellen whose parents are Charles and Ellen living at 23 Westgate Road, Faversham and the Father Charles was also born at Charing, Kent which is where you said John was born. So wondered if Charles was Johns uncle?

Just in case you havent got these details for the 1891 census it goes:-
Charles Croucher Head 26 born Charing Labourer (cant read rest)
Ellen 27 Shoebury Dressmaker
William 5 Faversham
Harry 3 "
Ellen 1 "
Hope this is your family
regards Sandymc
Midgley, Fowler, Chadwick, Kilvington, Routledge, Hewitt, Stevenson, Ward, Waite, Binks , Buck, Pearson, Stanley, Firth, Child, Hobson, Rogers, all Leeds and Yorkshire for centuaries except the Routledges from Wigton, Cumbria and Middlesbrough. Related to McAllisters of Wilsontown