Hi there,
Thanks so much for that, I'll have a closer look at the Chalbury baptism on the weekend, I looked at parishes within a 10 mile radius of Stour Provost last night and found a few...but this is another one to consider

In 1851 & 1861, Samuel ABBOTT is clearly listed as born Berwick St John, but that is close to the 'border' between Dorset and Wiltshire, so it would be an easy mistake to make:
1851 UK Census:6 Mill Lane; Samuel ABBOTT; Head; Widower; 65; Parish Relief; Wilts BerwickSt JohnEdwin ABBOTT; Visitor; ; 7; Scholar; Todber;
Job ABBOTT; Visitor; ; 5; Scholar; Stour Provost;
1861 UK Census:Bee House?; 1; Charles BARRETT; Head; Mar; 47; Inn Keeper & Tea Dealer; Fulmer Buckinghamshire;
Rezia BARRETT; Wife; Mar; 48; Donhead St Andrew Wiltshire;
Mary BARRETT; Dau; Un; 17; Stour Provost;
Richard BARRETT; Son; Un; 12; Scholar; Stour Provost;
Amelia BARRETT; Dau; 9; Scholar; Stour Provost;
Louisa BARRETT; Dau; 6; Scholar; Stour Provost;
Mary GIBBS; Widow; Mar; 83; blind; Stour Provost;
Samuel ABBOTT; Widower; Mar; 74; Agricultural Labourer; Berwick St John Wilts;Once again, most appreciated

Regards,
Patricia