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[buddysmum]

Hi All
Can anyone come up with a good way of find some one  My dad left home when i was 7 many years ago i might say
He went of with my mums brides maid they were seen a few years after with a child and would love to know if it was hes
this would have been in the late 50s to early 60s I have done a search for a child but dont know what name to look under as all the members of this web are dead now i wont hurt anyone This has often played on my mind and would love to know as i was the only child [ may be ]
                        Thanks for any help

[suehorne58]

presumably, your parents were divorced?  If so, your dad may well have remarried, what was his name and surname and when approx did he leave your home, that would give us a point of reference to work from?
Thanks,
Sue

[carol8353]

Buddysmum have you tried http://freebmd.rootsweb.com/ to see if he remarried.

Although if we are talking recent times then it may not show.

If they didn't divorce then they perhaps just lived together as a couple,and you would need to look under her name for a child and his(they may have registered it under both,or either)

That is providing you know what her maiden surname was?

PM me all the facts if you think there is any chance that any of these people may still be alive.

Carol

[buddysmum]

Hi again
No there was no divorce they just lived together as man and wife when he died mum still was married to him
I have looked under both names he was * she was *
He left home in 1959 and was seen a year or to after carry in a litlle boy in maidstone town centre by hes brother in law my mums brother who ask who the child was and he didnt reply
My Dad died in 1969 and she killed her-self 6 months later Mum died in 2008 so cant hurt her by looking now
thanks for reply

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[aghadowey]

Although the adults mentioned are all deceased the child mentioned could still be alive (and possibly not know any of the details mentioned here) so please be careful about posting any details such a names.

[casalguidi]

Am already in discussion with the poster via PM see editing of 1st post by myself at 15.49 hrs

Casalguidi

[casalguidi]

Have you looked for any newspaper obituaries for either of them?
Might there have been an inquest reported in the local newspaper for the suicide?
Would your dad or the other person have been in a position to leave a will?
Any gravestone(s) that may hold further information?

Was the surname of the lady you mentioned her actual maiden name?

Casalguidi

[buddysmum]

Hi again
Sorry about adding the names as they were dead i didnt think 
My dad left all his money to my Mum and the messages came via hes sister when she came to see my Mum
We know where he was living and i did see him a year before he died for the day i was 16 so remmber it well
he was brought back to blue bell hill crem as my Mum had to pay for it and i have all the details ie death certificate.
Once again sorry for mess up did not mean to   Regards