This could be her in 1861
BARNARD
Benjamin 1814 Besthorp, Norfolk, Head Farmer 160 acres emp. 3 men 1 boy
Susan 1816 Rockland St Peter, Norfolk, Wife
William 1838 Rockland All Saint, Norfolk, Son Blacksmith
Eliza 1840 Rockland All Saint, Norfolk, Daughter Farner dau
George 1842 Rockland All Saint, Norfolk, Son Carpenter
Charles 1847 Rockland All Saint, Norfolk, Son Farmers son
Lydia 1851 Little Ellingham, Norfolk, Daughter
Susannah 1856 Rockland All Saints, Norfolk, Daughter
Benjaman 1860 Rockland All Saints, Norfolk, Son
White Hart Street, Rockland All Saints
RG9/1237 folio 126 page 5
RD Wayland
subRD Attleborough
ED 9
Same family 1871
BARNARD
Benjamen 1815 Soham, Norfolk, Head Farmer 162 acres emp. 2 men 1 boy
Susan 1817 Rockland St Peter, Norfolk, Wife
Charles 1848 Rockland St Peter, Norfolk, Son
Susanah 1856 Rockland St Peter, Norfolk, Daughter
Benjamen 1860 Rockland St Peter, Norfolk, Son
Maryann 1862 Rockland St Peter, Norfolk, Daughter
Fredrick Smith 1851 Thompson, Norfolk, Servant
Rockland All Saints Street?
RG10/1841 folio 125 p10
RD Wayland
SubRD Attleborough
ED 9
Ties in with her living with ELIZA (Tennent), her sister, who is 15 years older in 1881
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