Hi Lizzie,
Thanks for your response. We have always understood his birthday to be 9th July, and this matches old diaries and family bibles we have found. However although we believe it to be 1887, this is questioned by his half sister in her diary (all her other notes have proved correct), and is different on each census (I know the census forms do round up/down) we also have his original wedding and death certificate which give an age.
In the 1891 census he is listed as aged 3, living with, we believe, an uncle and his family and has taken on their surname: BENNELL One of the children of this family always used to say he was her brother and couldnt understand why he went to live elsewhere.
In the 1901 census he is living with, who we believe to be his biological father (our g.g grandfather) and his wife and children (who also always said he was their brother) and has their surname (and the name he was alwasy known by0 STRATFORD
in 1911 he is living just down the road from his 'father' with his father's mother in law, but is listed with a different surname entirely - one which we then discovered on a birth certificate dated 9 July 1887 which he had in his possession 2 months before he died: HAWES
On his wedding certificate (from 1920) and war records and medals from WW1 he goes by his fathers surname STRATFORD, yet there is no birth registered under this name.
I have reordered the birth certificate he had and tried to trace the mother named on it but with no luck. My mother in law and I have been piecing his life together for many years now but still are frustratingly no closer to discovering his real mother and why he came to live with the other families. We will continue looking...
Thanks.