"My Dear Mother, I suppose that you will be astonished to hear that I got married friday last..." [see below]
Thus wrote Robert Campbell Ross (1845-1873) from Edinburgh to his mother Christina Campbell (1816-1885) in Reay.
At least, I hope he did. It's what he put down in his notebook.
Robert Ross was a G G'father of my wife. We have recently discovered that he seems to have had a cousin Murdoch Campbell:
Census 1861 Reay, Caithness page 8, Sandside
Rob Campbell, head,mar, 68, b Latheron
Mary Campbell, wife, mar, 68, Roxburgh
Mary A Campbell, dau, Un, 49, Latheron
Janet Campbell, dau, Un, 29, Reay
Murdoch Campbell, Grandson, 6, Stornoway(!!)
Just for completeness, the very next household entry is For Christina Ross (nee Campbell) age 44, widow, and her three children william Innes Ross (19), Jessie Ross (17) and Robert Ross (15).
Sandside house was a big employer.
So who are Murdoch's parents?
Well, we have found:
1871 census Olrig, Caithness:
CAMPBELL John Head M M 57 Baker Caithness - Latheron
CAMPBELL Mary Wife M F 50 Baker's Wife Ross and Cromarty - Applecross
CAMPBELL Mary Ann Dau U F 18 Baker's Daughter Ross and Cromarty - Stornoway
CAMPBELL Murdoch Son - M 16 Baker's Son Ross and Cromarty - Stornoway
CAMPBELL Robert Son - M 14 Baker's Son Caithness - Reay
CAMPBELL John Son - M 10 Baker's Son Caithness - Olrig
They are still there on the next census.
We also know, from the 1841 census, that Robert and Mary had a son John aged 20 at that time and described as a Joiner.
Finally, some more help from Robert Ross: also among his papers is a testimonial:
" Castletown 25th April
1866
???? do(to?) certify that the bearer
Robert Ross (???????) and for the (???????)
of Five Years in the capacity of
a (Baker???) & during which time
he acted faithfully & honestly and
behaved with the utmost de-
-corum,and may be received
into any Christian Society that
providence may order his lot
(Writing?) my hand this
the 25th day of April 1866
John Campbell
Baker Castletown" [see below]
Castletown is part of Olrig.
We had always wondered if this John Campbell was a relation, and Murdoch goes a long way to establish that.
I'm not bothered by the age discrepancy because especially the 1841 census gives funny results, and I'm only slightly bothered by a joiner becoming a baker. Obviously I'd like to find Murdoch's birth and John's marriage and these are proving elusive. But I'm really puzzled about the Stornoway thing. That's a long way to go (even now!) and it seems counter-intuitive that it would be to find work.
One possible clue I have found at familysearch.org is a female birth (no first name) 18/10/1851 parents John Campbell and Mary Lead in Stornoway. Could just be Mary Ann Campbell?