I really would like to talk to you about this. I think the Grimes - Wade couple actually had two weddings. Shall we say I don't think they were exactly conformists! Have you ever heard of Ed. Howes. He kep a diary or 'commonplace book' in the 1640s (it's in the BL manuscripts section Sloane MS 979 actually) - he mentions them. That's how I have found your comment here. I think he might even have married them outside the formal marriage arrangements.
I am not a nutter by the way, I have been studying these things for a while.
simon