Thanks Michael, the address is tankerville terrace in jesmond i assume.......i am 99% certain it is the large cemetery just past the blue house roundabout on the great north road on the way to haymarket.
I have just found a burial register that says someone was buried in the grave in the 1870's, then 2 children in the 1890's and then the first of my relations in 1946 and finally her husband in the following year, 1947. There is also a tiny bit of writing on the page that says that the grave was "purchased" by a member of the deceased wifes family a matter of weeks after the last burial. Am i correct in thinking that this means there will be a headstone, unless it has been damaged and removed?
As 1947 was fairly recent, i would assume that a headstone, if in existance, would still be there?!
John