Hi,
I am the 4x great-grandson of Betsy Van Arsdale. Betsy’s first husband was Isaac Van Arsdale, the man who was murdered at James Whitaker’s home in 1862.
Unfortunately, the identities of Betsy’s parents have always been a mystery. Her death certificate states that her father's Surname was Sinclair but a first name is not given and neither are the first and last names of her mother.
family stories have suggested that her mother's name was possibly Peti but I have struggled to confirm this. Anyway, I was looking at Betsy’s second marriage certificate and noticed that the witness’ listed were James and Jane Whitaker. The articles on Papers Past recounting the death of Isaac also point out that Betsy and Isaac, along with their two children, actually shared a house with James.
I thought I would do a bit of research on the Whitaker’s to see if I could find some clues regarding the identities of Betsy’s parents. When I realised that James’ wife was called Betty/Peti the thought crossed my mind that perhaps Betsy was the daughter of Peti from a prior relationship. Interestingly, Betsy has two sisters, Heni, and Ruiha. Heni is the Maori translation for Jane which also happens to be the name of one of Peti’s daughters. Might it be possible that Jane wasn’t actually James’ biological daughter?
Looking at photos of Betsy and Jane Whitaker I also felt that there were a number of similarities. ( I have included photos below)
I could be completely wrong, of course.
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