Dear Dave,
I knew there was quite a difference in the ages of James and Helen, but had not considered an irregular marriage, so will follow this up. Oddly enough, when James died, Helen married for a second time to the local schoolmaster, James Yooll, who was over twenty years her junior. The house where Helen lived is now the Samye Ling Tibetan temple. In the archives in Bermuda where my husband's family comes from there is a sketch done by one of her grandchildren of the house when it was the family home.
I assume from your surname that you are interested in the Smith side of this family. I have information on James and Helen's three sons who all died abroad, my husband being descended from the middle son. I also have photographs of the Burgess and Graham graves in Eskdalemuir and Watcarrick cemetery. If you are interested in any of this, please let me know.
Once again, many thanks for your help.
Best wishes
Diane.