Hi ,
yes Maude was her mother.
Maude's parents were Charles Penny Wright & Hetty Margaret Rintoul.
Maude's husband :
ATRH's Death Notice shows that he died at Groote Schuur hospital, and that he was described as a bookkeeper. He was buried in a single plot, numbered 22274C, quite near Gate 3 in Maitland Cemetery. A low blocky headstone is inscribed: "Alfred Thomas Radford-Hayden," -- {I cannot remember the next word} --"... husband and our Daddy. Until we meet again" His widow was Petronella Magdalena, formerly Steyn, and they had three children.
Maude & Alfred Hayden had 3 mentioned children : Richard Edward Hayden, Myrtle Hetty Hayden, Harry Neville. (Nellie's daughter mentioned a Thomas??)maybe died young.
In the article you sent i had already read & spoke to Nellie's daughter as it mentioned Alfred left his family abt 1913 -1914??.
I am looking at Nellie's death certificate /migration record she was recorded as Nellie Helen Whitehall.
Possible that Nellie was born - different father (illeg).
Are you able to find any info on her siblings/3rd wife or have a photo of Maude's Headstone?
Thanks for your time /effort