I've been trying to trace a lady called Martha Sheldon
1851 she born sudbroke lincs - unmarried servant and visiting the Woodwards in Lambeth
1861 she is born Ancaster, widow in Woolwich with son William age 10 (I guess he is William Sheldon born Jun 1851 Lambeth)
1871 she is born Ancaster, widow in Woolwich with son William age 20
1881 she is born Ancaster, widow in Woolwich with son William age 20 (again) and a lodger from Nottinghamshire
1891 she is born Ancaster, widow a patient in Woolwich (this is year she dies 1891 Jun Woolwich)
(William marries a Catherine Putland in Jul 1881 Woolwich and appears with her and children in 1891 - 1911 census in Woolwich, he died 1931 .. so he is all accounted for)
I'm guessing the "widow status" is for respectablity - UNLESS the "unmarried" 1851 was incorrect (but family stories suggest he was born out of wedlock)
I can't find her in 1841 - I am leaning towards a house servant in Nottinghamshire unless any of you clever people can come up with any other suggestions
In baptisms there is a likely Martha Sheldon baptised Wilsford 1818 parents William and Elizabeth
- they seem to have baptised a child called Ann on the same day and may have also baptised a William Sheldon 1823-1825 and Jane Sheldon 1821-1822 also in Wilsford
and possibly
Henry Sheedon 1813 in Ancaster and Charlotte Sheldon 1825 in Ancaster
I can't find another likely Martha but again can anyone else?
Looking at William and Elizabeth there are marriages on FindMyPast on 25 Feb 1811 in Wilsford
and in Folkingham on 25 Aug 1811 for a
William Sheldon to an Elizabeth Reynolds with a note added to them
saying "WW Balderton/ WILLCOCK alias SHELDON/ Remarried at Folkingham 25 Aug 1811
as SHELDON" and "Earlier marriage at Wilsford 25 Feb 1811 as WILLCOCK alias SHELDON"
There is a William Willcock to Elizabeth Reynolds marriage 25 Feb 1811 in Wilsford with the same note
Any ideas where I go from this to find William? am I looking for a Sheldon or Willcock?
and can anyone find a William or Elizabeth Sheldon death that might fit them?
There seems to be a distinct lack of Sheldon's in Lincolnshire for 1841 census and I seem to be going round in circles
Sorry - lots of asks but any help or pointing in right direction gratefully received
*Added
IF Charlotte Sheldon is her sister I may have found Charlotte with her dad in Newark Notts making William born c1781