Look forward to learning more about the SMITH family and hopefully with your help, finding the CORRECT FAMILY.
once again thanks for your help.....
Sharon Lamb
I think you'll find the concensus amongst several of us is that your Thomas is the one from Thornton, Buckinghamshire in Passenham on the 1851 Census with new wife Hannah Jones nee Bailey. He was a shoemaker whose father it would appear was a gamekeeper according to the 1841 Census for that Thornton family, but the Bucks FHS search should confirm that he is the son of that family (assuming any son of theirs wasn't buried as an infant but you'd need a Bucks FHS burial search for that).
If that's the case, it would probably be worth your while to purchase the death certificate of the Eliza Smith I quoted earlier to see if it definately confirms she's Eliza Read. OK I know you don't like purchasing for just one entry but sorry you will have to do that occasionally as no other way to get the information. That should definately confirm she died before the 1851 Census. If it's not her husband who is the informant, chances are it would be one of her relatives as that Eliza Smith is buried in Wicken.
As for the Lillingstone Dayrell family, well I think as Marilyn has confirmed from the 1849 marriage in the parish, that isn't your family.
Going forward (or backwards as the case is) from there assuming the search confirms your Thomas was from Thornton, Buckinghamshire, well you'll have to purchase other baptism/marriage/burial searches from Bucks FHS to follow the lines backwards unless you are able to get to the Records Office. Coverage on the IGI is patchy and can't be relied upon, so the only option really (until perhaps the day the records appear online, if ever) is the searches from Bucks FHS which I gather are now complete for the whole county.
Another option would be the corresponding marriage certificate for the Thomas Smith/Sarah Mitchell marriage in 1847 that Marilyn has mentioned as that is most likely your Thomas' father remarrying. That would then confirm his father's name in case there are more than one Smith family in Whaddon.
Tedious I know confirming the correct lines, and costs money, but at least you'd have some certainty you have the correct family. It's a matter of confirming each generation as best you can before moving on to another. The baptism search will help but you will need the corresponding marriage and burial's search to be able to conclusively confirm the members of the family.
Nicola