There's a Benjamin Barrow aged 42 born Bolton with wife E aged 46 b Spotland and children M (female) 15 b Heywood and J (male) 8 b Heywood living at Albert Street in Heywood in the parish of Heap in 1851.
LancsBMD has a birth for a Joseph Barrow in 1842 in Heywood, Rochdale mmn Lees.
Tracking back to 1841 on Bank Street, Heywood,
Benjamin Barrow 30, Ester 30 with children Mary aged 5 and Samuel aged 3
with James Barrow aged 15 and Betty Barrow aged 15 shown as living with Benjamin, Ester and family (parish of Heap)
James and Betty possibly the last two children from your list baptised 1822 and 1825 respectively.
Lancs OPC has this marriage
Marriage on 10 Jun 1832 St Chad, Rochdale
Benjamin Barrow - (X), Weaver, Small Bridge
Esther Lees - (X), Spinster, Small Bridge
Witnesses John Grindrod; J. Hollows
Baptisms
15 May 1836 St James, Ashworth, Lancs.
Mary Barrow - Daughter of Benjamin Barrow & Esther
Abode: Heywood
Occupation: Weaver
16 Sep 1838 St James, Ashworth, Lancs.
Samuel Barrow - Son of Benjamin Barrow & Esther
Abode: Bank Street, Heywood
Occupation: Weaver
This may help, if only to eliminate.
AB