I am in some difficulty. Arthur was my grandfather not my great grandfather and obviously I can answer most queries concerning my family. However he was born in 1865 the year the American Civil War ended, so how can I summarize 150 years of family history on a public internet forum. If someone really wants to know because of some family connexion or their own ancestry then I can shed light on the subject. I mentioned the phone number because you said NOT to mention an e-mail address. How else can I communicate? Help!