With the regimental connecton I noticed this family in 1891 is living at South Camp Aldershot which might be of use in the future
James Rose 41 Warrent Officer Army Service Corps b Middlesex
Mary Rose 31 b Ireland
James Rose 8
Henry Rose 6
Florence Rose 1 Devonport
In 1901 I think Florence from the family above is visiting a couple living at Swallowfield, Berkshire. Florence's siblings include a Charles??
James Saseltine 62
Mary Saseltine 68
Ellen Finnemore 26 Visitor b Aldershot
Florrie Rose 10 Visitor b Devonport
Charles Rose 8 Visitor b Aldershot
Annie Rose 6 Visitor b Aldershot
Edit - James Rose's army record is on F M P and confirms he had children Henry Thomas 1884, James William 1887 (the birth dates of Henry and James were crossed out and may have been mixed up), Florence Bridget 1889, Charles Michael 8/9/1891and Annie Rose 1894 and his wife was Mary Bridget Murphy