Su, I took another look at the census and found the following.
Hope it is the family you want.---Genealiza
1860 Tennessee, Shelby, Memphis (5th District) August 9th
Series M653 Roll 1273 Page 288
Dwelling # 675 / Family # 655
James Holt, age 36, male, occup/blacksmith, born/England
Rich Ingram, 24, m, soap maker, Scotland
Mary Holt, 20, f, Tennessee
W J R Holt, 4, m Tennessee
John Hodges, 43, m laborer, Tennessee