Thanks Trish, I had found those baptisms but the maiden name wasn't listed where I found them. So that confirms the Skingley name. I had found that birth record of James How but I was hoping to confirm it was the right James by finding his fathers name on his marriage certificate or something.
nannyj, thanks for your help. On the census it lists the address as South Weald, Brentwood. So I assume South Weald is a part of Brentwood. As Trish found the mothers maiden name listed on some of the children's baptism records I think we can be sure SKINGLEY is the right name.
Thanks Sue, that could be the right Mary.
Now I just need to track down the marriage record.