My goodness - what a truly amazing find......their Australian descendants will be shocked when I present this to them later on but then knowing some would probably suggest it par for the course with their family
I can't thank each of you enough for taking it on board and working it out....I really do feel quite humbled by your efforts, wow, what can I say other than a big 'thank you - again' - it would have remained hidden without your determination, no doubt that's what they had hoped.....
So I take it, for whatever reason he departed Northumberland assumed around early 1860's leaving his wife and child - being a mariner would have been easy enough, he eventually came to Australia, married Lowe in 1867 starting another life there.....Sarah remained in Tynemouth, did the same thing, married Scrimshaw in 1865 - both bigamists from what we see......wonder what role her father Thomas Blakey the butcher; had in having given her away twice and whether Joseph's father William, knew his daughter in law remarried....maybe he was deceased by then?
Some years back when I hit this brick wall - most of my research had been on William Mason as a ships captain based on what his son had said...that proved a dead end....it turned out correct that his father in law was indeed a butcher as stated at his first marriage - interestingly there does not appear any of Joseph relatives signed as witnesses (not sure who second witness Mary Ann Robinson was?) to that first marriage. On it, Joseph stated his father was grocer so I'd be pretty confident in that - more so than a sea captain at least
We are slowly getting there.........but what a ride so far
Edit.....
Having read the ages of Sarah from the two certificates....think that might be another 'porkie'...as JenB and RTL so eloquently put :
Marriage on 19 Nov 1854 - states she was a minor, no age given
Marriage on 24 Jul 1865 - states she was 24
There is a reference on England Select Births and Christenings to Sarah Jane Blakey, born 5 Sep 1837 and Christened 15 Oct 1837...makes her 17 years at first marriage and therefor a minor yet when she married Scrimshaw she was 28......perhaps grounds for a breach of contract too haha?