So the Ancestry tree only had an estimated year of birth based off census returns, the same as mine.
I’ve not yet been able to pin down Elizabeth Handley’s family as I sadly have no source for her exact age. She died in childbirth in 1823 so before both official death certificates and the censuses were introduced.
Going on the working theory that she was roughly the same age as her husband, William the Elder, the closest match I can find is an Elizabeth Monk born in 1775 to John Handley and a Mary in Upper Arley, about 6 miles north of Rock. I did a quick online search for any William Monks born there around 1799-1800 but got no hits.
I also did a search in Abberley, a nearby village to Rock. There are some other Monk families, possibly related to William the elder, who bounce between Rock and Abberly when baptising their children - there’s a William Monk born in 1787 to Samuel Monk and Martha Wilks, but I don’t think this is the William I’m looking for. Probably a cousin at most.
I don’t think there are any gaps in the baptism register - doing a search for baptisms in Rock over the period 1798 - 1803 returns plenty of results.
The question of illegitimacy is a big one on my mind, especially given the whole mystery about the brothers changing their name to Monckton later in life. Was William the younger actually a Monckton and all the other brothers started using it because it was a high-class name in Staffordshire?
If William was actually baptised as a Monckton then he’s likely mistaken about being born in Rock as there are *none* baptised in Rock, at any time. An aside: when William Snr’s son Edward (2nd eldest) returned to Rock in the early 1840s, apparently to care for his ailing father, he and his family were already using ‘Monckton’. His wife gave birth to another son, also Edward, who was baptised in Rock as ‘Edward Monk’. The family were still there in 1851 where they give their name in the census as ’Monckton’, even for their youngest son.
So to complicate matters, we have later precedent for this family living publicly in Rock as ‘Monk’ while privately considering themselves ‘Monckton’.