I found this report of the inquest into the death of Harry John Stainton DeAth, born in Lincoln in 1872 (mother's maiden name was Stainton). Thanks to AngloBoerWar. com, I know that he almost certainly served in the Kaffrarian Rifles (a South African unit) during the Boer War, was "slightly wounded" in late June 1901, and was discharged from his unit in early August 1901.
I've left out the house number as the property is now used as a dental surgery, and they might prefer that a suicide doesn't show up in searches for the business.
I'm not related to the family, but would like to find his grave, and then his war service can be remembered, rather than be forgotten.
"PAINFUL CASE OF SUICIDE. - A painful case of suicide was investigated by the Deputy Coroner for the city (Dr. W. H. B. Brook) at the City Sessions-house on Saturday evening. The deceased was Mr. Harry John Stainton DeAth, an engineer, aged 33 years, who lived with his parents at **, Guildhall-street [Lincoln]. At the time of the South African war the deceased was representing Messrs. Robey and Co. in that country, and he joined a rifle corps, and went through the campaign. He received a bullet wound in the back of the neck, and since then he has been mentally depressed, and has been medically attended in consequence. On Good Friday, about half-past seven in the evening, when fully dressed, he threw himself from the top bed-room window at the back of his father's house, and falling in the area below fractured the base of his skull, death resulting. At the inquest p.s. Gray spoke to seeing deceased lying dead at the bottom of the area steps at the back of **, Guildhall-street, and to finding nothing in the pockets but a foreign coin. - Mr. Stainton DeAth, deceased's father, stated that he was in a room he used for photographic purposes with a friend about 7.30 on Friday night, when he heard a rush and knock outside the window. They both exclaimed "What is that?" Witness hastened to the window, opened it, and on looking out saw his son lying on the ground, about 30 or 40 feet below. He was not aware deceased was in the bedroom. He was afraid his son could not have fallen out of the window. As the room was left he could not have got out of the window without getting g on the table. Deceased was in the Boer war, and was shot through the neck. Since his return home he had been a different man. He threatened to put an end to himself on Friday morning, and he had previously made such threats. When he first made such a threat, witness saw Mr. Chas. Brook. On Friday morning witness asked his son if he would like to come back to his old bedroom and live with them. He had been sleeping out, witness paying for a room for him, but he had his meals at home. - By a juryman: When the moon got towards the full deceased was generally a bit more queer than at other times. - Mr. Frank E. Derry, of 5, North-parade, who was with the last witness at the time, said he saw something pass the window, and immediately after heard a thud. Upon looking out he saw a body lying on the ground below, and it proved to be that of deceased, whom he had not seen for a week. - Dr. B. McFarland said he was called to the house by Mr. Derry, and found deceased in the area at the rear of the premises. He was still alive, but blood was flowing from his mouth and right ear, and he died a few minutes before eight o'clock from fracture of the base of the skull. Deceased was wearing an overcoat and gloves. At the back of the neck witness saw a scar from an old gunshot wound, and he believed the latter was the cause of his mental trouble. - The Deputy Coroner having summed up, the jury returned a verdict of suicide during temporary insanity, and added that they thought the wound in deceased's neck was the cause of his mental depression. They expressed deep sympathy with deceased's family."
(The Lincoln, Rutland, and Stamford Mercury, Friday 28th April 1905)
His birth was registered at Lincoln in the first quarter of 1872; his mother's maiden name was Stainton.
