I need to read & digest these replies, Liz I dont think the Grace at boarding school would be mine as it seems they were a bit rough and ready (lol) and looking at her adult life I just cant see her as attending a boarding school, unless she was sent to an approved school. She died in agony on Lindfield common after 2 days of convulsions. Her eldest child was Mary Ann born 1864 though.
The births dont seem to match the ones I have, of course the census might not be entirely accurate and James & Grace may not have been forthcoming with accurate info. Broom darker etc will be broom maker, a common gypsy occupation, especially in my tree. I don't have any Goldsmiths in my tree or DNA matches sadly, I wish I did but that would make it too easy

My great grannys sister Celia named one of her daughters Grace; Celia would have been 11 when Grace (her grandmother) died but it seems she knew of her, I assume. And Celia lived in Hastings, Sussex until the early 1900s. < useless info but just realised. Edit: Found a Grace Ethel Clark and the name Ethel does run in the family. Born and died 1892 Hastings, she may be a child death.