Having continued to research the Hayes family I have managed to get back to the grandfather of Henry James namely Henry Hayes b c1832.
Although my research started in Bedfordshire, I quickly found that historically, several generations lived in the Dartford and Wrotham Registration Districts of Kent. The Grandfather of Henry James was Henry Hayes b c1832 Wrotham who married Mary Collins Sep Qtr 1853. Mary b c1836 I have them in 1861, 1871 living Dunks Green, Wrotham, 1881 ShipBorne. 1891,1901 Swanscombe.
I have found that wife Mary died aged 72 at 71, High Street Greenhithe 22 Oct 1904. I cannot find Henry in 1911 Census neither can I find a logical death date for him. If anyone can help me with either Henry in 1911 or a possible death date, location etc I would be very much obliged. I wasn't sure whether I should have put this on the Kent site!
Regards
Robin