ive finally worked that out this man is the great grandfather of BOTH my cousin and a dna match in USA +( their respective great grandmothers were both unmarried and domestic servants )
I need help filling some gaps now .
john Thomas FARNSWORTH was born in Barnsley yorkshire england to single mother
sarah ann FARNSWORTH .
baby + mother lodged at her married sisters home in 1971
in 1972 Sarah ann Fmarried John MOXON .
on C1881 + C1891 John thomas FARNSWORTH has his step fathers surname MOXON +
he is a builders labourer in Barnsley in 1891
biological son john henry PRITCHARD is born at westoe durham in sept 1891
I cant find his mother * oops sorry Lillian /Melinda PRITCHARD in 1891 census
by 1901 she is a live in domestic servant in south shields and her son is boarding nearby and attending school
meanwhile John Thomas FARNSWORTH gets married in Barnsley 1892
and wife christiana nee BROOKE has 2 sons in Barnsley 1894 George + 1896 Ernest
and Albert in staincross 1895
his daughter emily was born Darton, Yorkshire 1899
john thomas Farnsworth was in Darton C1901 ; i think his job was plater at colliery over ground
so my question is
how did a builder meet ANOTHER domestic servant : Harriet DOBSON
she had his son John William DOBSON in 1902 in Stockton on the Forest ,Yorkshire.
her occupation is given as domestic service on birth certificate
In 1901 census she was a visitor age 23 with her birth mother sarah williamson (DOBSON)no profession given but could have been helping look after her half siblings .
I d really like to find a census for Melinda Pritchard in 1891( b 28 nov 1869 ealing middlesex )
though described as foreign subject in 1901
photos on trees of the Farnsworth men do bear family resemblance to my cousin