My brother in law Rob (b. 1964) shares 136 cM with Steve (b. 1956). Steve is Rob's closest non identified Ancestry DNA Match although we know which of their grandparental lines they share. I have created an extensive tree for Steve and there is clear geographical evidence of where the link belongs. Steve does not respond to messages despite having a pretty extensive linked tree.
I have done a WATO using 9 other shared matches who we have identified in Rob's tree. They range in shared DNA from 21 to 56 cM. I add that I have inputted DOBs etc as well as shared DNA amounts into the WATO.
The strongest hypothesis is for Steve, who remember is 12 years older than Rob, to be FOUR generations below Rob!! The 2nd highest hypothesis, which is 30% less likely than #1, is for him to be THREE generations below Rob - in fact, this is the main hypothesis' father. This #2 hypothesis is 2.5 x more likely than the next most likely and the huge tail of less likely hypotheses thereafter.
Is this odd result merely the consequence of all the 9 matches inputted being somewhat distant to both parties (21 to 56 cM) or am I missing something? I was told not to bother with matches who share less than 40 cM and this might be the reason as only 3 of these 9 matches are higher than 40 cM and one of them is 41 cM!!!
Best MTIA