Hello Jess...
If you have enough in your budget for another certificate/printout I would suggest the 1897 death printout for Ellen McFETRIDGE, formerly NICHOLSON (cost NZ$20.40)
BDM NZ Deaths - 1897/2001 - McFETRIDGE, Ellen - 48Y
The death printout
should list her parents and it
should be accurate as, according to her headstone, her father William was still alive at the time of her death. Hopefully aged 97 William still had his wits about him and could remember the maiden name of his wife. Would be nice if it were McCARTHY.
I wouldn't bother with the 1897 death printout for William NICHOLSON 1801-1897 until you work out if he's one of your NICHOLSONs. Unless of course the 1897 death printout for Ellen McFETRIDGE doesn't list her parents, in which case it's the obvious next choice if finances allow.
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Well done for putting your money where your mouth is and purchasing the NICHOLSON/FLOOD marriage printout :-)
Were there any witnesses mentioned. And anything at all not previously mentioned on the ITM.
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Speaking of uncommon names (Deacon/Deakin - Rees/Reece) here's a mention of Rees NICHOLSON being from Takapuna, so it's looking like he's one of the Takapuna NICHOLSONs (William, Ellen et al)
Found on the "NZ Herald Notices" fiche at my library. Pity it only mentions the bride's parents by name.
10 August 1883
By the Registrar of Marriages, Auckland
Rees NICHOLSON of Takapuna, Auckland to Annie CARROLL, eldest daughter of Mr and Mrs Michael CARROLL, farmers of Claremont, Co.Mayo, Ireland
P.A Coromandel....which I think means Place of Abode, Coromandel. But I could be wrong :-)
And if you go
here and type McFETRIDGE into the search box you'll find a possible relative. Quite interesting how the same names keep turning up.
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I totally understand what you mean when you say that as "Alice McCARTHY" is on your Edward's marriage certificate then that's who you're looking for. Personally, my point of view is 100% opposite :-)
My starting point is "BDM certificates aren't worth the paper they're written on" then I carry on from there. I've come across so many obvious lies that, although certificates are important to have, I don't treat them as gospel.
The best (worst?) was one lady whose combined BDM Certificates showed she was born in 1872 and 1874 when in fact she was born in 1869 according to her baptism record, she made up one of her three marriages, her father had three different names and two different occupations (none of them her father's actual name or occupation) and she had no children - although it was her grand-daughter I was helping out.
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More than happy to keep looking at this NICHOLSON family. I see there is an
Alice Cecilia MCFETRIDGE, possibly the daughter of Ellen. Maybe there's more than one Alice in the family.
Regards
Beg