Hello Aghadowey,
Thanks for the good advise - unfortunately, in my case her english marriage certificate only states that she was of full age was resident in the parish of High Holborn in London at the time of her marriage to John Sands in 1861
and the 1871 Kent census, states that she was living in the High Street in Westerham, Eleanor Sands,status mar, age 33, ocupation grocer, place of birth Donegal Ireland.
the 1861 Kent census, states that she was living in Westerham, - Eleanor Atkinson, status - unmar, age 23, occupation laundry maid, birth place Donagh Ireland.
that is all - no mention of religon - but, her husband was church of England as were her children - so if she was originally a Catholic or Church of England I do not know !Nor do I know which town or parish she came from other than what is mentioed on the 1871 and 1861 kent census.
Which is a problem - as I do so want to know more about her either before she married or after1874 when her husband died she seems to have dissapppeared although three of her children are in the 1881 census -there is no trace of her -did she go back to ireland ? did she re-marry?
All help would be greatly appreciated.
regards - Luc