Hi Scriv2: I have just read your first posting regarding Grahams, Rennie's and Doran's.
My grandfather was James Rennie Doran. His brother, Robert Doran married Susannah Graham 1892 in Carlisle. Susannah's parents were William Graham (born 1846) and Isabella Story (born 1850).
William had two sisters, Mary and Ann Graham, I am now wondering if Ann married a Doran and is the widow you mention in the 1861 census. Mary and Ann lived in Rickergate.
I have lots more info if you need any.
Cheers, Alison