Good grief!
It almost defies belief that this thread is still going on - and is still rehearsing the same tired old arguments
I'm sorry if its annoying to some that it still goes on. I wasnt in at the beginning.
Its probably an anno domini issue - I'm probably older that some if not most - or could it be in a lot of us, that there's a need to pass on accurate records and have them that way for ever.
I dont consider one enquirer and those with whom we find some friendship in groups and lists and forum to be "the public domain". Not everyone wants to make it absolutely public on a website; I certainly wouldnt. I agree, that's inviting careless hands.
I've done my research to pursue family anecdote and those in my family who thought some of it was just romantic notion. We've got our share of changing social stigma, shame, adventure, and characters who one cant help but admire, who enjoyed life rather fuller than most. I've a note on an envelope that states the contents are not to be shared for they would "do no one any good" but to remain theirs. I searched for the truth and I suppose I feel torn between loyalty and allowing it to become history for the benefit of others. Some of the truth is still hiding.
We've had two lines of so called "cousins" with some history, for whom - over a period of 90 years - my family couldnt find a common ancestor. I did that two or three days ago, though there is still an ultimate find to be had, or not. It's that line that is finding some interest now.
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