Hi Tsumi
I think the man who died in Canada is named BELHAM not BETHAM.
At first look, the original death cert looks like the person filling in the form omits to cross his t's in words 1) "cemetery" and 2) Barrington". The word 3) "step" has the cross bar drawn on it's own, in mid air so to speak, to the right of the vertical stroke of the t. The surname of the deceased, written in reference to him, his father's surname and for his step-son's surname - all look like BELHAM. I believe the indexer of the record has assumed the word is BETHAM based on the idea the 3rd letter is a "t" with it's cross-bar missing. However - looking again carefully, the words 1 and 2, I do believe have a cross bar stroke, written quite wildly and faintly to the right of each vertical stroke. But, definitely no faint marks near the Surname's (supposed) t's, though - ie: the word does look like it is meant to be BELHAM.
This is your George:1854: Birth - Sep Qtr 1854 West Ward RD - George Waistell BETHAM
1861: Census - George W. BETHAM age 6 - in Newby Westmoreland
1871: Census - G W BETHAM age 16 - in Newby Westmoreland
1878: ?Manifest of "Bothia" , Geo. W BETHAM 25, Farmer, of England, intending to reside England (ie: on a sojourn, not permanent)
1881: Census George W BETHAM age 26 - in Lancashire in household of a sibling, with other siblings
1886 - Married: George Waistell BETHAM and Elizabeth FAIRER - West Ward RD, Westmoreland
1886 - Birth Sep Qtr West Ward RD: Dau : Margaret Winifred BETHAM
1888 - Birth Dec Qtr West Ward RD: Son : George Herbert BETHAM
1891 - Birth Jun Qtr West Ward RD: Dau: : Mary BETHAM
1891: Census : George BETHAM age 37, Farmer, in Shap Westmoreland, wife Elizabeth 41, children: Margaret W - 14, George H - 2 and Mary - 7mths (probably should be 2 mths),
1901: George BETHAM age 46, COmmercial Clerk - Agent, in Kendal Westmoreland with wife Elizabeth 51; children Margaret W - 14, George H - 12 and Mary - 10
1903: Death: Margaret Winifred BETHAM age 15 - registered West Ward RD.
The man who died in Canada :Birth year is a year out (but that would be acceptable!)
Stated to be in Canada 45 years (so from approx 1885)
The informant is a STEP-son, George H (not George A as I originally thought, sorry)
The Informant does not know his (Step) father's parent's names.
Cannot find the deceased or his (step-son) son, in Canada Census as BETHAM. One might assume, that's because they were in England............but, neither can I find anything else for them in Ontario records.
Your, George is in England for every census; if he went to Canada - based on the theory it is his death in 1930, then he it must surely have immigrated at approx 49-50 years of age- after Census 1901, and most likely not before his daughter died in 1903 - giving him a maximum time to be in Canada of 27to29 years before a possible death in 1930.
And even given the possibilities of mispellings and/or lack of ages and initials, noithing on the Find My Past migration databases to 1960, look like your family going to Canada?
I think I have George BELHAM in Canada - just pulling it together - but it's looking like he is the one who died 1930 - an elimination, if nothing else!
Cheers
AMBLY